second thoughts

People say and do things they dont mean. at least after they have said and done it, they feel they dont mean it. Why is it that many people cant keep promises? Why is it that they have to be so fickle minded? okay, so they cant control their emotions. but they can control their actions right? in a way,yes, but still the mind influences the actions so, thats where the whole fickle minded thingy comes in. they turn their backs on the things that they once believed in. for example, leaving someone after so long of being together just because suddenly they have a late second thought. late second thoughts are a result of immaturity of the mind and inability of contemplating with oneself. i have to say, ive experienced a lot of late second thoughts. but those days are over even though once in a while my alter ego steps in and takes over my mind.
still, im able to control my thoughts and hopefully this time i wont make any stupid mistakes that would soon end with regret. thinking of what could have been, what should have been and stuff like that.i dont want to see those days anymore. i want to take all the chances that i have and even though maybe i wont gain anything, at least i get a taste of what its like. so, get out there and do the outragous things in life!! 20 years from now u wud at least want to remember why u lived. doing things that might seem stupid yet fun. What have u got to lose? As long as u do it the right way, there's nothing to fret about..again, the memories would truly matter in the future even though they might seem overrated now.